My name is Lauren. Counselor, wife, parent, business owner,and ex-theater person. Also, I got sober at a young age. Why am I telling you this? Because I’ve been around the block and want you to know that I know how difficult life transitions can be.
I am naturally curious about people’s experiences and the motivation that makes them do the things they do. Working with people who want to make a change in their life truly energizes me in a way no other profession has.
Everyone has their story to tell. Everyone needs someone to tell it to and deserves to be heard.
What you can expect from me:
Empathy and Encouragement
Being honest with yourself, deciding to make a change, and then figuring out how to do that is hard! I want to celebrate victories and help you develop self compassion during setbacks. In counseling, you may be challenged to look at the darker parts of yourself. I am 100% willing to walk this road with you and accept what emerges.
Sense of humor
To be blunt, I love laughing. If we aren’t having a good time, what the heck is the point? Even when trudging through difficult situations or subjects, a little levity can go a long way. I do not confuse this with minimizing important issues. Some things require serious and dedicated thought, but I will help you look at circumstances differently in order to harness the energy to keep going.
Genuine curiosity
Understanding is something I strive for. If I have a question, I will ask it. If I offer feedback and it does not sit right with you, I want you to tell me. Apart from building trust, getting to know you and how you operate will help us create realistic goals that you can reach. I want you to be curious too! If you can’t imagine the life that you want, you cannot create it.
Focus on feelings and needs
My particular passion is to help people connect honestly with themselves and to give voice to their values. I do this by incorporating opportunities to build a mindful awareness of what is going on in the present moment. Feelings are indicators of needs being met or unmet. They are also sensed in the body. Taking a moment to notice this is something I’m into. I will probably ask you to give it a shot, too.
Have other questions? Ask me! I always offer an initial consultation with people seeking help. It is important to me that you are comfortable with the person you choose to work with.
If you are ready to begin making positive changes in your life, reach out. Schedule time to get started today.
Lauren Verbilla
Licensed Professional Counselor